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In the 21st century, young people are growing up in a world that is increasingly dominated by digital technology and social media. While these advancements have brought numerous benefits, they have also come with a concerning rise in mental health issues, particularly anxiety and chronic stress, among adolescents and young adults.
During adolescence, where growth and self-discovery often intermingle with uncertainty and anxiety, coping mechanisms, given below, like ‘Self-CBT’ or ‘Acceptance’ are a few of the ways to cope best with young anxiety.
In this article about dealing with anxiety as a teen in the digital age, we dive into valuable strategies to make the most of this crucial period.
Youngsters, nowadays, are mostly anxious about how they’re perceived. They may be overly concerned about not coming across as smart or competent, or they may be extremely frightened about saying or doing anything embarrassing. The negative mindset and self deprecating image they have formed can worsen their anxiety and lower their confidence.
Here are five common reasons for young anxiety in the digital age, along with their possible solutions:
High school students frequently face demanding academic requirements, such as tests, homework, and college preparation.
Their anxiety might be worsened on by a fear of academic failure or of falling short of expectations.
In a highly competitive environment, there can also be a lot of pressure to perform well.
To cope with academic pressure, try time management, set realistic goals, and talk to your closed ones when needed.
Create a balanced study routine, take breaks, & practice self-care.
Remember, it’s okay to ask for assistance and prioritize your well-being.
The desire to fit in and be accepted by their peers can create anxiety, or fear of being judged by others.
Feeling excluded or disconnected from social circles, whether virtually or in-person, can trigger profound feelings of rejection, inadequacy, and anxiety (Lim & Gleeson, 2014).
To overcome the pressure of fitting in, it’s crucial to face difficult situations to build confidence and resilience. You will always be ‘You’ and never someone else.
Embrace your uniqueness and understand that you don’t have to conform to others expectations. Focus on friendships that appreciate you for who you are.
Learning self-defence is another great way to make it easier to stand up for yourself when needed.
Teenagers could feel under pressure to live up to their extravagant family’s expectations for their behaviour or future career. Being anxious about not living up to unrealistic family expectations can be a significant contributor of anxiety.
To cope with excessive family’s expectations, communication is key.
Reach out to trusted people in your circle and figure out a solution to your situation.
Young Anxiety in the digital age can be worsened by a desire to meet social media beauty standards. Comparisons in one’s mind to others, particularly in a society where the ‘definition of beauty’ is messed up, negatively affects their self-esteem.
Self-acceptance: Recognize that social media often portrays unrealistic beauty standards.
Surround yourself with positive influences, and limit exposure to harmful comparisons on social media
Teen anxiety and social media are getting more common. Youngsters are frequently engaged with social media. It is not unexpected that they are influenced by what they see on social media posts.
It influences how they feel about themselves and how they view the world. It’s hard for them not to compare their life to social media which might alter their understanding of the reality, right and wrong.
Try to distinguish between online personas and real-life experiences. The constant dopamine rush makes your mind bored and you don’t enjoy the pleasantness of anything.
Balancing technology use for young people is crucial. If using social media excessively, consider putting a timer on it or maybe even deleting it. You will start to see the beauty in small things in life.
Certain groups of young people may be particularly susceptible to developing anxiety in the digital age:
Young Anxiety in the digital age is common during adolescence. As the teenager is growing up, their brain starts developing and hormones start showing effects. As they’re processing all the new changes, they might get overwhelmed and face difficulty assessing all the new information.
Here are a few tips they can put to use:
The concept of “Accumulation of Small Efforts” means small and “unnoticeable” efforts at hindsight, but when done repeatedly, accumulate at the end and trigger a “noticeable” successful event.
According to James Clear in his book “Atomic Habits”
“People who invest the smallest but consistent efforts into an “Activity X” will be better by 37.78% in that particular activity after one year.”
“WHAT YOU SOW IS WHAT YOU REEP“
Start implanting minor seeds of “Positive Thoughts” like a gardener in his garden/mind. The result of those small and consistent actions will soon reveal a very noticeable change in you; i.e. you might get to have a bright day in your life soon or get a promotion at your work!
Therefore, don’t undervalue the impact of those modest actions because they can provide the groundwork for your success.
By recognizing one’s thoughts, feelings, and behaviours, youngsters can become the most rational version of themselves. It is to take into great consideration that thoughts, feelings/moods, and behaviour are all closely linked.
Consider Example 1: If an individual harbours a fear of public speaking, their behavioural response, such as avoidance, can engender thoughts of inadequacy and foster negative moods due to their perceived inability to deliver a public speech.
In this case, individual’s behaviour negatively affected their thoughts and mood, which further affected their behaviour.
Consider Example 2: Commencing the day by slowly planting positive thoughts can result in increased motivation and productivity by the afternoon, and such goes for your future.
In this case, individual’s thoughts had positive impact on their behaviour and mood.
A blow to one factor can have a great impact on another, while an investment in one can significantly improve the other two factors.
Hard times shape strong men. Use your difficult times to become the person you desire to become. Every one of your struggles serves a purpose. It will all make sense in the end why you went through certain struggles at a certain period of time of your life.
Example: Imagine yourself standing at the bottom of a mountain, and you want to observe the beauty of the best sunset in your life. You have two options;
Sit there for years and think you’ll never be able to climb the mountain
OR
Start climbing the mountain, one step at a time, to observe the sunset
Once you reach the top of the mountain, the rest is history!
In reality, you do not have control over the weather, unexpected events, or even your health. However, you have influence over your internal world; Choose your thoughts wisely or commit to taking the right decisions, which could be to stop listening to your negative emotions and think logically even if that means you have to suck it up and perform anyway.
Start growing in life by balancing a challenge with your skill level. It is a powerful strategy to manage anxiety for several reasons:
Imagine a surfer riding the waves. If the waves are too small, there’s no thrill; if they’re too big, it becomes overwhelming. Similarly, in our pursuits, we must seek challenges that match our current skill level. This balance creates a sweet spot where we’re pushed just enough to improve and grow, but not so much that we feel defeated.
Exercising, or training in any sports correctly, plays a remarkable role in uplifting mood and fostering ‘Positive Stress.’
The release of endorphins creates a genuine sense of well-being. This physiological response to physical activity combats inflammation, paving the way for an improved emotional state and lowering anxiety.
Moreover, enhanced blood and oxygen flow helps to achieve clear skin and heightens cognitive function to improve focus and concentration, which are essential elements of self-care. The clarity of mind that follows exercise also empowers us to make wise decisions.
The prevalence of digital age mental health challenges, such as anxiety or depression, stems from various factors such as academic pressure, the desire to fit in, excessive family expectations, body image concerns, and the influence of social media.
To support youth’s mental health in the technology age, practical solutions, such as importance of time management, building resilience, effective communication about family expectations, promoting self-acceptance, and developing a healthy relationship with social media, can help.
To manage anxiety, they can use strategies like the ‘Accumulation of Small Efforts’ towards positive thoughts or behaviours, Self-CBT, Facing Adversity, and Regular Exercise. These approaches can help them to navigate the challenges of adolescence and build resilience for a brighter future.
When looking for mental health support, it’s often best to start locally. Many communities have mental health clinics, hospitals, and community centres that offer counselling and therapy services. You can find these services by searching online directories, like Psychology Today’s Therapist Finder, which allows you to filter results by location, specialty, and insurance coverage. Additionally, your primary care doctor can be a valuable resource, as they can refer you to local mental health professionals or services that meet your needs.
Finding the right mental health help can be overwhelming, but there are several ways to simplify the process:
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